What it Means to Be Vulnerable
I used to be in the camp of super negativity where I would say no to every little thing. That meant I missed out on a lot of life. Especially in my twenties and thirties, there were so many fun things that I didn't do because I was too scared to
The 4 Biggest Myths About Journaling
I’m debunking the 4 BIGGEST MYTHS ABOUT JOURNALING, right now...
Myth #1 You need at least 20 minutes to journal properly. Nope! You don’t need that much time. How much time do you need? Well that depends on
How to Get Clear on What You Want
When you focus on the things you want in life they come towards you AND if you focus on all the things you don't want they come towards you too. So how do we switch our mindset so that we draw the things we really want towards us and we stop requesting all the things we don't want?
How to Get Comfortable with Being Vulnerable
I was teased so many times as a kid, that I thought all of my questions were stupid, so I stopped asking. I was terrified to say what I really thought. That made college especially hard. Most people assumed I was shy and probably not very smart.
Why Do I Feel Quiet and Small?
I used to be stuck in that place of listening for other people's judgment. It kept me quiet and small. I feel like I've shared this part of my story time and time again and yet there's always another layer to unpeel. Even when I taught yoga my fear of judgment snuck in.
What Celebrating My Dreams Looks Like
When I was little, I decided I wanted to live in Berkeley California which might sound like a crazy dream for a child, there was just something about the city that spoke to me and I knew I wanted to make it my home.
What Does Empathy Look Like?
When you offer empathy and understanding to those around you, you’ll feel a deeper connection. One that can shatter limiting beliefs and bring you closer to
How to Move Forward Instead of Feeling Stuck in the Past
The first time I fell hard was in first grade, I was six years old. I was attempting a trick on the bars and I fell in Tanbark. If you’ve never experienced the annoying agony that is tanbark then
Why does fear keep me stuck?
The ancient reptilian part of your brain is scared all the freaking time. That's its job. But that means that it's stopping you from doing 98% of the things you really want to do. It’s time to unpack the fear based beliefs so that you can re-write them.
The Truth About My Inner Dialogue
Your inner dialogue wants to support you, but it sees change as the enemy.
It wants to keep you stuck in your familiar routine because that feels safe. The thing is though, you don’t have to stay there, it is possible to reframe the thoughts in your head so that they can encourage you to take a step forward instead of dragging you two steps back.
The 3 Simple Steps to Reframe Inner Beliefs
The stories you tell yourself hold you back from being happy because those stories limit the way that you see the world, the way that you see your life, and the way that you see yourself. Many of your stories cause you to put
How Matching Red Skirts Started a Friendship
“It takes both sides to build a bridge“ - Fredrik Nael. One of my best friends, Susan and I built a deep trust from an early age. We first bonded over fashion in the first grade. The recess bell rang and
How I Understand Myself
I used to play small in nearly everything I did. I kept my words to myself. Even when I had a conversation with someone and I knew what they were saying was incorrect I wouldn't say a word. Instead I rehashed the conversation over and over again for the next
How Movement Benefits Your Body
When I first took yoga I was the one hiding in the back row and always did exactly what the teacher said to do, nothing more, nothing less. I followed blindly because I didn't know how to listen to my body. I thought the teacher knew best, that their cues were the only way to do a pose.
How Journaling Helped Me Through 2020
At the beginning of shelter in place I needed to do an hour of yoga everyday just to make it through the day. That wasn't going to be sustainable sharing our open floor plan house with the other two humans in my family. I needed something else that I would help me cope, work through the troubled thoughts in my head, and keep me from shutting down completely.
How to Calm Anxiety
A mentor encouraged me to hold onto the calm-clarity feeling whenever it showed up. But that feeling was elusive and rare like a snow leopard.
What’s the Difference Between Life Coaching and Therapy?
Life coaching and traditional therapy overlap A LOT! Both help you understand yourself better, make sense of past experiences/traumas, and give you space to process and grow. They differ in that
When Things Go Unexpectedly Well
The universe works in interesting and often surprising ways. Right now I find myself oscillating between anger, depression, and hope because our world feels broken to me, so I offer you these words as a silver lining and perhaps a beacon of hope. Sometimes things
Are My Words Important?
I used to assume that everyone around me knew more than me. Really though I was just silently bowing to their superior knowledge and thinking that my words were not important enough to say. But sometimes someone would
Did My Barbie Dolls Influence My Body Image?
When I was a kid, I had a massive Barbie collection, like you couldn’t count them all, kind of massive. I was in love with Peaches and Cream Barbie and Barbie and the Rockers. I even got