What’s Slow Start vs. Quick Start?
I'm what you call a slow start human, rather than a quick start. I tend to over plan, think things through, and take a looooong time to finish things. This goes back to
What Frustration Really Means
True confession, I don't enjoy teaching yoga online. It was something I felt that I should do because I'm a yoga teacher and we had the whole pandemic thing and so therefore I need to teach online yoga so that more people have access to my classes. I felt frustrated and annoyed, which meant I was ignoring the signs that
Why We Need So Many Yoga Teachers
When I decided to become a yoga teacher I realized that there were already A LOT of yoga teachers in the world, so why did I think that I could do it too? Well because it was something
How to Choose People That Cheer For You
The people that surround you, that you spend the most time with, influence how you feel, act, and respond to everything that pops up in your life. Who's in your corner no matter what? I’m gonna get really real for a minute here, more real than I normally do. Keep reading, I start on the darker side and offer more hope by the end of this
What’s the Difference Between Excuses and Reasons?
I once emailed an acquaintance that I longed to be besties with, asking to hang out, except I didn’t ask to hang out. Instead I went on a diatribe about
How to Understand Subconscious Beliefs
Did you know that I’m a nerd? I am, I love star wars, I love spreadsheets, and love solving puzzles! Both the cardboard kind you assemble on the table and like the ones in the video game Myst, (that most folks renamed Pyst because they couldn’t solve those puzzles). That’s the kind of nerd I am. I’m a nerd when it comes to my weekly quotes too.
Balance with Yoga and Journaling
It's okay to feel sad, unhappy, depressed, anxious, or fearful because those feelings are balanced by joy, happiness, elation, understanding, and contentment. The challenge is if you’re not finding that balance, you can feel unsteady and unsure.
How to Feel Worthy
I struggled with the idea of being comfortable with my own words and sharing them beyond my journal or my brain. I found the thing that helped me the most was deciding to
What it Means to Be Vulnerable
I used to be in the camp of super negativity where I would say no to every little thing. That meant I missed out on a lot of life. Especially in my twenties and thirties, there were so many fun things that I didn't do because I was too scared to
The 4 Biggest Myths About Journaling
I’m debunking the 4 BIGGEST MYTHS ABOUT JOURNALING, right now...
Myth #1 You need at least 20 minutes to journal properly. Nope! You don’t need that much time. How much time do you need? Well that depends on
How to Get Clear on What You Want
When you focus on the things you want in life they come towards you AND if you focus on all the things you don't want they come towards you too. So how do we switch our mindset so that we draw the things we really want towards us and we stop requesting all the things we don't want?
How to Get Comfortable with Being Vulnerable
I was teased so many times as a kid, that I thought all of my questions were stupid, so I stopped asking. I was terrified to say what I really thought. That made college especially hard. Most people assumed I was shy and probably not very smart.
Why Do I Feel Quiet and Small?
I used to be stuck in that place of listening for other people's judgment. It kept me quiet and small. I feel like I've shared this part of my story time and time again and yet there's always another layer to unpeel. Even when I taught yoga my fear of judgment snuck in.
What Celebrating My Dreams Looks Like
When I was little, I decided I wanted to live in Berkeley California which might sound like a crazy dream for a child, there was just something about the city that spoke to me and I knew I wanted to make it my home.
What Does Empathy Look Like?
When you offer empathy and understanding to those around you, you’ll feel a deeper connection. One that can shatter limiting beliefs and bring you closer to
How to Move Forward Instead of Feeling Stuck in the Past
The first time I fell hard was in first grade, I was six years old. I was attempting a trick on the bars and I fell in Tanbark. If you’ve never experienced the annoying agony that is tanbark then
Why does fear keep me stuck?
The ancient reptilian part of your brain is scared all the freaking time. That's its job. But that means that it's stopping you from doing 98% of the things you really want to do. It’s time to unpack the fear based beliefs so that you can re-write them.
The Truth About My Inner Dialogue
Your inner dialogue wants to support you, but it sees change as the enemy.
It wants to keep you stuck in your familiar routine because that feels safe. The thing is though, you don’t have to stay there, it is possible to reframe the thoughts in your head so that they can encourage you to take a step forward instead of dragging you two steps back.
The 3 Simple Steps to Reframe Inner Beliefs
The stories you tell yourself hold you back from being happy because those stories limit the way that you see the world, the way that you see your life, and the way that you see yourself. Many of your stories cause you to put
How Matching Red Skirts Started a Friendship
“It takes both sides to build a bridge“ - Fredrik Nael. One of my best friends, Susan and I built a deep trust from an early age. We first bonded over fashion in the first grade. The recess bell rang and